I watch Ugly Betty because of its fabulous acting and its zingy one-liners. If I think too hard about the plot lines and the occasional uneven characterization I stop liking it so I don't do that. And I certainly don't think about Betty and Henry and Gio - even when they are on-screen.
And just because here are two screencaps of Ashley Jensen. The first is from Takin' Over the Asylum (1994).
This is from the Ugly Betty episode "Burning Questions" (2008).